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Sexual Failure
By peace | May 10, 2007
Sexual arousal normally leads to erection in the male, but his natural progression is sometimes interrupted. Failure to achieve erection or to maintain it is a common cause of sexual failure.
Failure may cause anxiety and fear, sometimes amounting to panic. This has a disastrous and repetitive effect, through the fear that failure will occur next time. And it often does, because anxiety has a harmful effect on the mechanism of erection.
The problem worsens and love-making ceases to be a delightful and emotional experience. Erotic and bodily feelings are replaced by fears of failure. As catastrophe follows catastrophe, the unhappy man finds that the very prospect of sexual involvement causes panic, and so it becomes something to avoid. He becomes impotent.
Erection problems can start off as a result of one or two disappointing performances in a man who has previously enjoyed satisfactory sex. Poor performances can occur if there have been stresses between the couple, if the man is over-tired, if he has been drinking heavily, or for many other minor reasons. Deep-seated physical causes are rare. Occasional sexual failures are common among couples and most people can shrug them off or ignore them.
Why then do they lead to long-lasting problems in a few men? The answer probably lies either in the man’s personality or in the relationship between the couple. Some men see every encounter as a trial of physique and any failure as intolerable weakness. A fundamental need to succeed can make a man vulnerable to any erection failure, and can aggravate the damaging effects of anxiety.
If the couple are antagonistic to each other in their daily lives, and he is hoping that improved sexual performance may overcome the hostility, or if her exposure to his problem is to put greater pressure on him and thus increase his feelings of inadequacy, his erection failures may also become habitual.
Often the problem of erection failure is worsened by the reaction of the partner who may feel, in some ill-defined way, to be partly to blame. Is she not attractive enough? Does he no longer find her desirable? Can she not arouse him? This can lead to the woman feeling undesired and rejected. Resentment and hostility can follow. Eventually sex between the couple becomes difficult, or even impossible.
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