My Difficult Time

By peace | June 21, 2007

Life is devastating when the one I trusted had betrayed me. However I had to continue life for the sake of children.

The only time in my life when I borrowed money is during my most heart-broken time and also my hardest time of my life, is during the time when my husband left me. Having to look after two children, and having to think of sending them to school is all about money. I had to look for job and a maid during those time. It is hard time. Before I had found a job and a maid, I had to borrow money. I hate to borrow money. But I have no choice.

I borrow money from overdraft facility and from my insurance policies. I have no time to compare loans during those time. I was very stressful and I need money fast. So you see, our lives are so unpredictable. We do not know when we need money urgently. It was only after my confinement and my husband left me. It was just after my second child was born and I got to know that my husband had an affair. It was devastating and depressing. I had to care for the new born as well as to worry about my marriage.

Nobody like to be in debt. However, at time of crisis, borrowing money can help to overcome your difficulties. You have to know of places where you can get personal loans and secured loans. Increasing your knowledge, creating awareness will help you at time of crisis. It is to get you prepared. Money can always be earned back. As long as you are spending the money on good use and not gambling away. Borrowed money to curb your difficult times. After you had earned your money, you pay back the money. Till this day, I am still working hard to pay back some of my loans.